In Search of Better Tools

by Jayson Fumera '17

Due to alarming hazing-related deaths, the ANTI-HAZING LAW was enacted in 1995, it was implemented, and then…

Nothing happened.

There were 39 (officially) hazing-related deaths recorded.

Over two decades later, this anti-hazing law was amended, putting more teeth to decisively dissuade the practice. It was implemented, but then again…

Still, nothing happened.

The practice still persisted, of which 13 (officially) more deaths were added to the harrowing list.

Is it really about the written law?

But what if the power to bring about the profound change should start ‘within’? That the true force for change might be found not solely in legal frameworks, but in the evolution of our own perspectives and actions.

Most if not all of you would agree, when I say that the answer would always be a resounding “No” whenever a child would seek parental approval to join a fraternity. Given the preconceived notions surrounding fraternities, we cannot fault those parents who always prioritize the well-being of their children. But imagine a situation where parents play an active role in encouraging and advocating for their children to join a fraternity. A situation where parents take the initiative, fervently promoting and endorsing their children’s involvement in fraternity life. What’s in the fraternity? What good does it do in shaping men? What good does it do in building a strong society? Is there such a fraternity? Will there be such a fraternity?

On January 26, 2024, the residents of the Upsilon Sigma Phi Fraternity ended the semester with a dynamic team-building activity at the Bridgetowne Obstacle Park in Pasig City. The expansive park is the world’s biggest of its kind which sprawls over 6,000 square meters and boasts a collection of 25 challenging obstacle courses. Challenging I must say, even disheartening if I may add, as I tried it myself and cannot finish more than half of the obstacle courses. In all fairness, I was not an outlier, I am not proud but with all honesty, we were all (almost) the same. The obstacles proved to be no easy feat – demanding not only physical but also mental toughness.

In search of effective & compliant tools to initiate and indoctrinate, opinions may vary among the diverse individuals that constitute our Fraternity, each presenting valid arguments. However, we must align with the core tenet of our credo, which underscores that adherence to the law is not a subject no longer open for debate. Instead, our focus should be directed towards aligning our practices with the unwavering commitment to uphold the principles that define our fraternity's identity.

Being the oldest born fraternity in Asia, Initiation ceremonies are deeply ingrained in our fine traditions. These have long served as our rites of passage, fostering a sense of community and shared purpose among us fellow Upsilonians. While some may continue to argue that hazing is an effective motivator and a swift instructor of life’s lessons, our fraternity has managed to steer away from it. In the field of research, a pivotal step is the construction of an explorative question that serves as a guiding star throughout an endeavor. In this context, I found myself echoing the profound question of Fellow Lewis ’86:

“How can we effectively instill qualities such as courage and composure in times of adversity, nurture patience and humility, foster determination and resilience, and cultivate empathy, tolerance, and brotherhood in the hearts of our fellows, using tools that are not only effective but also compliant with the law?”

“How can our fraternity help shape its members into becoming the best men they can possibly be?”

The initiation process is crafted in a way that it teaches individuals to be resilient, empathetic, and purpose-driven individuals. It teaches the invaluable art of perseverance, unveiling the strength within one's character that might have remained dormant. It imparts the wisdom that success is not merely about personal triumphs but about collective achievement, emphasizing the significance of collaboration and shared goals among your fellow neophytes. It teaches the spirit of self-negation, of oneness in victory and in defeat. The initiation process is a canvas where bonds are forged, it becomes the guiding force, ultimately shaping individuals into not just members, but vital contributors to a thriving and interconnected community, echoing the spirit of our Alma matter and the Republic of the Philippines. These should be our “whys” which can be instilled through alternative means.

Trying the obstacle courses, myself, initially sparked skepticism within me, questioning whether they could genuinely serve as a substitute for the demanding aspects of traditional initiation methods. The mental and physical toll seemed too overwhelming, that only a selected few were able to conquer every challenge. My initial impression led me to doubt the feasibility of subjecting applicants to such rigorous trials, that I think, most neophytes will not be able to finish such obstacles. However, I soon realized my thinking was misguided; I had missed the essence of the entire endeavor. Much like traditional initiation methods of the past, success in these courses isn't about conquering every obstacle. Instead, the fruit lies in the invaluable lessons and experiences gained throughout the entire journey with your fellow applicants. As what the late fellow Cochise ’81 had said: “If victory is a measure of our strength, then let defeat be a measure of our character”. Adding to this statement, Lewis ’86 aptly noted: “It may be time to add to the wisdom this has offered us. "Defeat and failure often does more good than success.”

Initiation should go beyond the mere act of gaining entry into the fraternity; it should be a profound journey of self-discovery and personal development. As illustrious fellows, we should aim to instill values such as leadership, resilience, and a deep sense of community that promotes a lasting bond among our members. While hazing has been historically employed as a test of character, the blurred line between character-building and harmful practices raises significant concerns. Initiation should be a positive and growth-oriented experience, emphasizing qualities like teamwork, dedication, and integrity. Being the “best frat men” that we always claim, we should advocate for a shift towards mentorship, positive reinforcement, and constructive challenges as effective means to prove one's worthiness without resorting to the negative consequences associated with hazing.

Without drawing any conclusive remarks, I re-echo the idea of fellow Lewis ’86 for obstacle courses to be a potential alternative worthy of exploration. Obstacle courses can serve as a progressive and effective alternative to the outdated and potentially harmful practices of hazing. These courses can assess an individual's physical prowess, problem-solving skills, and teamwork in a controlled and constructive environment. By embracing this concept, we pave the way for a modern and responsible approach to initiation that reflects our fraternity’s sustained commitment to growth, unity, and the well-being of our members.

After 3-enduring hours trying to overcome the obstacle courses, our sem-ender concluded with a football match and drinks at the adjacent pitch. You can never go wrong with ice-cold beers & barbecue combo, all thanks to Batch 86 for sponsoring the fellowship. A brief respite was in order for a chance to recharge our energies.

And then suddenly, there was a feel of nostalgia, triggered by that same electrifying jolt when I heard “UPSILON!” which the residents responded when they were asked: “para san to?” In that moment, a comforting sense of familiarity settled in, as I am, again, reminded that home is not only a place, but it also resides within connections. It was a fleeting yet profound moment of belonging — I am home. Fellowship has always been home.

As the night unfolded, offering much-needed relief, especially for residents, it served as a timely escape from the demands and pressures of the recently concluded semester. This was a timely reminder that in the midst of challenges, we find comfort and joy in the bonds of genuine brotherhood. It echoes a resounding affirmation of the enduring strength and significance of our Upsilon ties.

As we were about to end, we convened for a mandatory photo at the football pitch, framed by the great presence of The Victor statue standing tall and proud behind us. A creation of Fil-Am artist, Jefre Manuel-Figueras, The Victor isn't just a sculpture; it stands as the world's tallest lighting projection art installation, soaring to a remarkable height of 60 meters. Standing before this symbolic statue, I couldn't help but contemplate, The Victor serves as a lasting reminder that positive change, like any significant achievement, is a journey marked by growth, understanding, and the enduring strength of the human spirit. As we continue marching forward, guided by the ideals of our fraternity, my fervent hope is that every Upsilonian will be honed to be fine-grown individuals capable of serving to the fullest extent of our capabilities. More than victors, we are conquerors! Onto our next 100 years, Mabuhay ang Upsilon Sigma Phi!

About the Author:

Jayson Fumera '17 hails from Las Piñas City. He did his BS and MS both in Agricultural and Biosystems Engineering in UPLB. He joined the fraternity in the year 2017 while doing his Masteral studies. He was formerly based in the Netherlands where he completed his second MS degree in Biosystems Engineering with specialization in Controlled Environment Agriculture. He is an astronomy enthusiast who finds joy in exploring mountains and beaches throughout his travels.